STEPS TO FOLLOW FOR RAISING KIDS
  1. Remember that a child is a gift from God, the richest of all blessings. Do not attempt to mold him in the image of yourself, or any other. Each child is an individual and should be permitted to be himself.
  2. Don’t crush a child’s spirit when he fails. And never compare him with others who have outshined him.
  3. Remember that anger and hostility are natural emotions. Help your child to find socially acceptable outlets for these normal feelings or they may be turned inward and erupt in the form of physical or mental illness.
  4. Discipline your child with firmness and reason. Don’t let your anger throw you off balance. If he knows you are fair, you will not lose his respect or his love. And make sure the punishment fits the crime. Even the youngest child has a keen sense of justice.
  5. Do not hand your child everything his little heart desires. Permit him to know the thrill of earning and the joy of achieving.
  6. Do not set yourself up as the epitome of perfection. You will find it easier to communicate with your child if you let him know that Dad and Mom can err too.
  7. Promise your child what you can live up to. To a child, a parent’s word means everything. The child who has lost faith in his parents has difficulty believing in anything.
  8. Do not try to protect your child against every small blow and disappointment. Adversity strengthens character and makes us compassionate.
  9. Teach your child to love God and to love his fellow humans. Don’t SEND your child to a place of worship, TAKE him there. Children learn from example. Telling him something is not teaching him. If you give your child a deep and abiding faith in God, it can be his strength and his light when all else fails.